life's predicament

they say you cant have your cake and eat it too......why is that?
i was an only child for 7 long years and an additional 2 years when i was literally adopted by my aunt. so i guess you can imagine where i am coming from.....a brat who want everything? id like to look at it as an optimist who thinks things are there for the taking, its just a matter of taking the right steps
to give up my principles or to be tough enough for major changes.......that is one hard decision! why cant i keep my principles and stay where i am....it is because i have to deal with people with a different view of how life should be, of what is important and most of all, of how to handle situations.....
what im most afraid of now is that i waste my time thinking and making up my mind and then ill find that someone else has made up my mind for me. that would be one sad day.......a misserable day that can actually happen.....so what to do? take it into my own hands or wait it out like the true optimist that i am? after all, it might, after all these years, get better
life's predicaments
if i let go of what i have, will i find something better? or is this the best there can be? how will i know?
life's predicaments
the easy way out and live life in commonality or put myself on that limb and live life the way i would want it to be? which is more important?
life's predicaments.........